By Cailey Morgan
I’m guessing some of you chuckled when you read my previous article—as if you’d have time to sit around sipping coffee in a garden! But part of the example we see from Christ is that He always had margin: white space around the content of His day so that He could engage in relational spontaneity.
He walked in a pace of trust in the Father, that what needed to get done would get done.
Margin creates buffers. It gives us room to breathe, freedom to act and time to adapt. Only then will we be able to truly nourish our relationships. Only then will we be available and interruptible for the purposes of God (Richard Swenson).
If we seek to follow Christ into where He is at work in our communities, we’ll need the space in our days to listen and to go. I call creating these margins “time-trust.” These three “A”s from Brad Brisco are practical ways we can grow in this area:
Write down and study your weekly schedule and monthly schedule. Where is there margin? Where is there a lack of margin? What are some things that might need to go or change in order to not live at a hurried pace? Take a look at your daily routine, too. Where could you incorporate a listening time? Where are you sharing space with others but not actually relating with them?
Margin is not about addition of another thing, but alignment. Align your calendar with the calendars of other people. Taking eating for example. We all eat 21 meals a week. Can we share 4 or 5 of them with others?
Can we find a ride-share for daily commutes? Can we do the dishes when the kids are in bed, in order to be available to play street hockey with the neighbours after dinner? Take a close look at the rhythms of your neighbours, coworkers and friends. How can you align your rhythm with theirs?
These three processes are great to do in a small group, with a mentor, or even as a family. Work together to find creative ways to realign your schedule for the sake of mission.
One element of time-trust that I haven’t mentioned yet is Sabbath. It’s too huge of a topic for here, but I’d argue that it’s monumental for anyone looking to live a missional rhythm of life. I’ll soon post a couple of reviews on books about the Sabbath that I think are worth a read. In the meantime, here’s a helpful article on the Sabbath by Forge Canada Director Cam Roxburgh.
In my next article, I’ll share some thoughts about second and third places, and how we can put our trust in God and our time alignment to good practice away from home.
This is the fifth article in a series. Read the other posts here: